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How do I stop bullying at work
Carpy25:
is it a small company or a big company with an on site HR department , are the people doing the bullying your bosses or the same level as you are they bullying anyone else
Rob
r5gtt:
--- Quote from: rich83 on July 05, 2016, 09:40:39 pm ---Keep a log of what happens. Then speak to your boss.
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I will do thanks
--- Quote from: maxitrol on July 05, 2016, 09:41:28 pm ---Sounds like you have jumped from the frying pan into the fire.You could have a word with the boss about it but can make things a lot worse
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Yes seems that way maxi I can't belive what happens this morning and the way these pri*** are treating me. seems like they want me out but for what reason I don't know.
--- Quote from: Carpy25 on July 05, 2016, 09:43:12 pm ---is it a small company or a big company with an on site HR department , are the people doing the bullying your bosses or the same level as you are they bullying anyone else
Rob
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It's a small company Rob, I just couldn't belive what the guy said to me this morning when I asked him if he knew who pulled my wipers up and before I could say another work he went all aggressive on me :confused:
They are fitters like me and no one else is being bullied but me. one pri** keeps coming over to where I work and making silly comments about how fast I'm fitting the cars and how good it looks sarcasm if I'm not wrong as the silly comments about other things are making me wonder what's going on.
Carpy25:
Its not good when there's no one to turn to for help its like being in the school yard again , a big part of the problem is realising its going on and asking for help , keeping a dairy is a good thing to do use this to approach who ever is in charge when the times right , it's very difficult to stop bullying yourself ,so easy to say stand up to the bully but not easy to do ,try to make friends with the last new boy before you in chances are he was the target before you arrived strength in numbers ,
One thing you could try is next time your all sat having a tea break ask him calmly and firmly why he's bullying you in front of his peers and make it clear you don't like it , I'll put a bet he's doing it or has done to everyone
Good luck keep your chin up and don't let the barstewards win
Rob
r5gtt:
Rob this guys a load mouth c*** excuse the French.
I spoke to him a few times and he always calls me bruv and also told me he has cancer ad he drinks too much it for some reason he went off on one and I don't think it's a good idea to try talk to this psycho again as I'm not thay big a guy to handle his weight. I'll probably need a 2lb hammer in my hand to keep me from harm.
They have all been working together for years so I'm the newb and the other fella Steve who started two weeks ago but no one says anything to him as his around 50 years of age and I look like a kid so I'd be the one who gets bullied plus I'm non Caucasian not thay it should make a different but sadly.
Carpy25:
If you feel threatened the best thing is to try and stay out of his way , gather evidence against him and go to the boss , maybe a cheap dash cam would catch him red handed messing with your car and give you more ammo to go to the boss with
Rob
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