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General => Random Chat => Topic started by: u01atc8 on September 24, 2010, 08:48:16 am
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Right nice friday morning topic here!
Just split up with my girlfriend last night! She had decided and all at once that was it. She had been hanging out with other guys while i was away in london on business.
She was with him last night and supposedly this weekend too.. she claims nothing in it, but i dont buy it for one second.. well id ont know what to believe.
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sorry to hear that, never a good thing on any morning.
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Chin up lad, you're finally FREE!
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Never easy at first dude but time is the great healer!! Keep smiling fella :happy2:
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Thats not on, couple of good things at least it seems she ended it before shacking up with anyone else, and its Friday so at least you can go out on the beers with your mates and have some fun rather than mopping around the house/office. And this is just my opinion but if she was prepared to end it so quickly then your better off without her as she is clearly fickle!
As mentioned chin up and get some plans sorted to have a great weekend :drinking:
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sorry to hear that but as you mention it does sound funny her explanation & your better of moving on
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thanks people for the comments. Its just hard and i know im a fool if we get back together but still i want to and its soo difficult because i still madly love her! :love:! Doesnt halp when we are both as stuborn as each other.
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Its all alot easier for us mate sat on the outside! Hope whatever you do that it works out, I would certainly be taking the opportunity to enjoy the weekend and get some space to think it all over.as its all a bit fresh :sad1:
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i feel sick at the thought of us splitting :sick: and it would kill me to find out for sure if she has got with sed guy... :fighting:
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Not good sounds like your best off apart. :( :sad1:
Hope you feel better soon.
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Dont worry mate, it will feel sh*te for a week or so but theres plenty of other girls out there!! keep you chin up and get out with your mates, youl soon get over it and wonder why you were even bothered in the first place! :happy2:
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Take it easy fella, I know how your feeling :sick: I've been there mate, exactly the same situation a long while ago.
It will hurt for a while, weeks, months .......who knows ? Just dont be spending time on your own too much right now, your head is gonna be your worst enemy :scared: Spend time with your mates or family and try to relax, your doing the right thing now by discussing it with people :happy2:
Yes the worst has just happened, but things WILL get better !!!
All the best now, and stay positive.
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what you need is to go out and get yourself some clunge
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Keep your chin up mate, yeah it will be hard for the next couple of weeks but spend plenty of time around people, mates and family as mentioned above, keep yourself busy and your mind busy! You will be alrite and there is plenty of other birds out there.
If she has been with said bloke you deserve better mate...
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Sorry to hear about this. Put it this way - would you have preferred it if she had left you now or say after you were married/had kids/bought a house? Would you go back to her if you knew she'd break your heart all over again.
It hurts mate. It will keep on hurting but as said above, don't let yourself ge too depressed about this. Get out. Go for a drive. Chill out with mates.
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Having been in a similar situation recently I can sympathise with you :confused:
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what you need is to go out and get yourself some clunge
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So after all your advice and printing out the badge (Joke) i went out and with some wise words of wisdom from Mr Budwiser and absolute vodka! LOL i went out and bagged my self a few :love: the went back to a ansolutley stunning girls house for the "after Party" :evilgrin: ( she proceeded to call me 5 times while i was a little busy shall we say) :happy2:
was that bad of me when im going on about how much i still love her.. (obviously i wasnt saying that on saturday night haha!) totally confused now!
Got to say the girls i have cheeky wee :love:'s with and the other girl afterwords were all out of my league i think but i did it some how! :laugh:
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Thats the well know, your still acting like your in a relationship so not drooling over anything that walks past effect, Women can sense a desperate man at 20 paces so since you werent desperate for some attention you got attention.... (im feeling very descriptive today!!!)
You now have a bit of power over the ex as you werent there mopping after her when she called, and your confused as you now have options rather than the ex taking all your options away..
Anyway glad you had a good weekend and im sure things are looking up now :evilgrin:
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I agree with most of the advice already posted and of course, our various supportive words actually do help.
However, I think it's good that your beloved has the strength of character to be upfront with you even if it hurts. If you really love someone it tends to be in spite of their faults and no-one is perfect anyway. On the other hand, if she doesn't love you enough, then it's time to move on.
Whatever you do, don't dwell on the idea of her and other guys - All that matters is you and her and whether that works, or not. You need to be more selfish (like me!).
Be your own complete person and never split yourself in half for the sake of any other human being. That expression "my other half" is total rubbish and doesn't reflect well on anyone who thinks like that.
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So after all your advice and printing out the badge (Joke) i went out and with some wise words of wisdom from Mr Budwiser and absolute vodka! LOL i went out and bagged my self a few :love: the went back to a ansolutley stunning girls house for the "after Party" :evilgrin: ( she proceeded to call me 5 times while i was a little busy shall we say) :happy2:
was that bad of me when im going on about how much i still love her.. (obviously i wasnt saying that on saturday night haha!) totally confused now!
Got to say the girls i have cheeky wee :love:'s with and the other girl afterwords were all out of my league i think but i did it some how! :laugh:
Thats what being single is all about. Im single and dont intend to get in a relationship unless its someone like Katy Perry/Cheryl Tweedy/Megan Fox :evilgrin:
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Unlucky dude, my mate and his gf split up then got back together and split up again. Im sure you'll find someone much more deserving of you.