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Title: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: berg on June 22, 2012, 09:18:06 pm
well guys had my first born last sat, no time to come on here at mo, wow what an experience! Knackered!

Henry Francis likes the tough ride of the B12 though  :evilgrin:

So my latest mods are the Britax First Class and sunblinds on the rear windows, kerb weight is up but the extra weight in the back evens it up a bit more lol
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: Top Cat on June 22, 2012, 10:29:08 pm
Congratulations.  :congrats:
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: vRS Carl on June 22, 2012, 10:31:30 pm
Congrats.  :congrats:

I can't believe our son is 5 weeks old already. Time will fly now mate. Enjoy the sleepless nights  :happy2:
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: Top Cat on June 22, 2012, 10:39:53 pm
Congrats.  :congrats:

I can't believe our son is 5 weeks old already. Time will fly now mate. Enjoy the sleepless nights  :happy2:

It's the strangest thing with Children, i work away 2 or 3 days a week, and every time i come home without fail i can see a difference in my son.  Blink and you miss it.  :wink:
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: vRS Carl on June 22, 2012, 10:42:05 pm
I just spent 12 days away from mine and when i got back the change was immense!
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: bacillus on June 22, 2012, 10:43:55 pm
Congrats but where are the pics of the young grasshopper?   :smiley:
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: Andy on June 22, 2012, 10:46:08 pm
Congrats.  :congrats:

I can't believe our son is 5 weeks old already. Time will fly now mate. Enjoy the sleepless nights  :happy2:

It's the strangest thing with Children, i work away 2 or 3 days a week, and every time i come home without fail i can see a difference in my son.  Blink and you miss it.  :wink:

to true tc,best advise is take a loads of photos each week as they grow up so fast
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: Tfsi_Mike on June 22, 2012, 11:00:19 pm

Congratulations!!!

So cliche but it does go so fast!  I'm away for 6 weeks  :sad1:  thank god for Skype & iMessage for pics and video clips and video calls everytime he does something new!

Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: RedRobin on June 22, 2012, 11:32:03 pm
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Enjoy all the time you can with them. My daughter is now 21yo!

This seems like only a couple of years ago!:

(https://www.mk5golfgti.co.uk/forum/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fdaz.co%2Fmedia%2FRedRobin_05%2FRR%2FSky_ChelseaStudio_0520.jpg&hash=2a330b9b99707e549e4223a21ff6be85f510ffa4)

(https://www.mk5golfgti.co.uk/forum/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fdaz.co%2Fmedia%2FRedRobin_05%2FRR%2FFb_header_SkyRR.jpg&hash=9f96f3577efb7d3186d19bd765f0bc98bef79980)
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: Bernhard30 on June 22, 2012, 11:47:39 pm
Congrats mate.

19 months and three days since since our first born arrived.

After years of not thinking of myself as 'family man material' it's mega she's here.
And of course my little girl is in my opinion just the coolest person I know.

Mods wise: She bounces along on B12's too.
Plus it's a good reason to get your windows tinted, as that's what I've had done. Honestly not for the looks at all, but for the UV's.
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: vRS Carl on June 22, 2012, 11:49:54 pm
(https://www.mk5golfgti.co.uk/forum/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fdaz.co%2Fmedia%2FRedRobin_05%2FRR%2FSky_ChelseaStudio_0520.jpg&hash=2a330b9b99707e549e4223a21ff6be85f510ffa4)

Nice pic RR  :happy2:
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: Tfsi_Mike on June 23, 2012, 08:36:34 am
(https://www.mk5golfgti.co.uk/forum/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fdaz.co%2Fmedia%2FRedRobin_05%2FRR%2FSky_ChelseaStudio_0520.jpg&hash=2a330b9b99707e549e4223a21ff6be85f510ffa4)

Nice pic RR  :happy2:

 :happy2:
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: RedRobin on June 23, 2012, 08:45:02 am
^^^^
Thanx, guys  :drinking:

Here's another one and doubtless what all dads get to do with their young ones!:

(https://www.mk5golfgti.co.uk/forum/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fdaz.co%2Fmedia%2FRedRobin_05%2FRR%2FSky_ridingDad.jpg&hash=103dfd31dba7b5dc616539c4d11291c094c7981d)

^ Note the wall art by my daughter Sky.

It's almost impossible to put into words what it feels like to be a dad. It's not necessarily the bestest thing that can happen to you in the world - It's just very very special in the extreme and you become a different person and have a different approach to life.
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: jhtrophy on June 23, 2012, 09:19:29 am
Those pics are great RR :happy2: in terms of cars when you have kids, I never get why some people have a kid and suddenly go buy a Renault espace :signLOL: the best mod you do when you have kids is maccy d chips that get stuck under car seats, drawings on your windows from the ride to school in a morning and lovely footprints everywhere other than carpet mats :signLOL: actually I'm going to go buy a Renault espace.
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: Tfsi_Mike on June 23, 2012, 09:48:46 am

Quick Berg buy some Porsche brakes while you've still got some money!  :innocent:
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: RedRobin on June 23, 2012, 09:50:22 am

Quick Berg buy some Porsche brakes while you've still got some money!  :innocent:


....And then when the missus finds out, you can sell them to Tfsi_Mike!  :evilgrin:
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: berg on June 23, 2012, 12:33:09 pm
ha ha cheers guys, will get pics when get a chance only just got time to post this as got a visitor cuddling him. jeez.. sleepless nights and a half i presume your body just adjusts after a while??

Re mods already trying to sell the safety ones and comfort ones now to the missues eg RVC, and UNIbrace XB and UB will make the car safer I presume??  :wink: Mike - yes bigger brakes the best safety feature  :evilgrin:

Re JH Trophy, people keep saying "well, thats the end of your GTi", I reply, "why? thats why i bought a 5 dr as forward planning as opposed to a Boxster and would have had to have sold it now.

I  might do a RR and do 300k in it and give it to him when he is 17 ha ha as a vintage GTi..

Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: Baz300 on June 23, 2012, 01:59:36 pm
I'm tempted to keep my gti and pass it onto my son when he is old enough to appreciate it (21) as it is also the same year as him.

But dread to think what price v power will be in 12 years time and what sort of mpg cars of the time will be getting compared to the golf, turbos will prob be banned by the EU by then too.

Congratulations on becoming a Dad I can honestly say being a Dad is the best thing that has happend to me
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: RedRobin on June 23, 2012, 02:41:44 pm

jeez.. sleepless nights and a half i presume your body just adjusts after a while??

Re mods already trying to sell the safety ones and comfort ones now to the missues eg RVC, and UNIbrace XB and UB will make the car safer I presume??  :wink: Mike - yes bigger brakes the best safety feature  :evilgrin:

Re JH Trophy, people keep saying "well, thats the end of your GTi", I reply, "why? thats why i bought a 5 dr as forward planning as opposed to a Boxster and would have had to have sold it now.

I  might do a RR and do 300k in it and give it to him when he is 17 ha ha as a vintage GTi..


....Re sleepless nights: Most folks say this but we found that breast feeding and having baby in bed with us made all the difference. I have father'd 2 children, 4 years apart in age, and had no sleepless nights.

(https://www.mk5golfgti.co.uk/forum/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fdaz.co%2Fmedia%2FRedRobin_05%2FRED_INK%2FBreastBest.jpg&hash=235de60c4dfeae06f077f8ff0a090fb855a83372)

Re 5-dr GTI: Most definitely a very practical allrounder with plenty of room and flexibility. If your gear and kid won't fit comfortably in a Mk5/6 GTI, then you've got too much gear and some of it needs leaving at home!

Re UNIbraces: How do they make your car safer? - I don't think so. But they do make your car corner much more flatly when driven hard. You'll get away with a black UNIbrave UB because wifey will never look under your car and if she does and asks what it is you'll say what she says when she pretends that that new dress/shoes/bag isn't new and makes you feel embarrassed for not noticing and complimenting her earlier.

 :happy2:
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: Tfsi_Mike on June 23, 2012, 02:52:42 pm

Quick Berg buy some Porsche brakes while you've still got some money!  :innocent:


....And then when the missus finds out, you can sell them to Tfsi_Mike!  :evilgrin:

I was hinting at Berg buyin my brakes Robin  :innocent:
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: berg on June 23, 2012, 05:46:18 pm

jeez.. sleepless nights and a half i presume your body just adjusts after a while??

Re mods already trying to sell the safety ones and comfort ones now to the missues eg RVC, and UNIbrace XB and UB will make the car safer I presume??  :wink: Mike - yes bigger brakes the best safety feature  :evilgrin:

Re JH Trophy, people keep saying "well, thats the end of your GTi", I reply, "why? thats why i bought a 5 dr as forward planning as opposed to a Boxster and would have had to have sold it now.

I  might do a RR and do 300k in it and give it to him when he is 17 ha ha as a vintage GTi..


....Re sleepless nights: Most folks say this but we found that breast feeding and having baby in bed with us made all the difference. I have father'd 2 children, 4 years apart in age, and had no sleepless nights.

(https://www.mk5golfgti.co.uk/forum/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fdaz.co%2Fmedia%2FRedRobin_05%2FRED_INK%2FBreastBest.jpg&hash=235de60c4dfeae06f077f8ff0a090fb855a83372)

Re 5-dr GTI: Most definitely a very practical allrounder with plenty of room and flexibility. If your gear and kid won't fit comfortably in a Mk5/6 GTI, then you've got too much gear and some of it needs leaving at home!

Re UNIbraces: How do they make your car safer? - I don't think so. But they do make your car corner much more flatly when driven hard. You'll get away with a black UNIbrave UB because wifey will never look under your car and if she does and asks what it is you'll say what she says when she pretends that that new dress/shoes/bag isn't new and makes you feel embarrassed for not noticing and complimenting her earlier.

 :happy2:



I guess I was referring to the XB strengthening the inherent weakness of the hatchaback structure, would the added rigidity not help in a side impact t-bone?

Mike - will PM you when things clear  :drinking:
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: RedRobin on June 23, 2012, 05:58:43 pm

I guess I was referring to the XB strengthening the inherent weakness of the hatchaback structure, would the added rigidity not help in a side impact t-bone?


....I suppose that the XB might help if a side impact hit in the right particular place but it's only aluminium. You would need a full roll-cage with side impact bars to make a real difference.
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: berg on June 23, 2012, 06:04:27 pm
yeah, lets be honest i am just trying to justify it on a safety basis, when your review clearly demonstrates it is still a performance mod only in real terms  :driver:
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: vRS Carl on June 23, 2012, 06:06:57 pm
Our son is breast fed and we still get sleepless nights. It depends on how he wants to feed as sometimes he will cluster feed and others he will go 3-4hrs between feeds.

I wouldn't advise having the baby in bed with you. I know some do it successfully but everything we have been told or read advises against it.
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: RedRobin on June 23, 2012, 06:10:11 pm
^^^^
The XB is very good as a 'luggage' restrainer - Does that help you justify it?

(https://www.mk5golfgti.co.uk/forum/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fdaz.co%2Fmedia%2FMods%2FUNIbrace%2FXB_chair_1961.jpg&hash=3b313493203530df19f8ce04e994616c89decf65)

(https://www.mk5golfgti.co.uk/forum/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fdaz.co%2Fmedia%2FMods%2FUNIbrace%2FXB_1880.jpg&hash=6098ec816ce183bd6e0dae08d8f05555f0485d8b)

And you can still have a third seat:

(https://www.mk5golfgti.co.uk/forum/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fdaz.co%2Fmedia%2FMods%2FUNIbrace%2FXB_1879.jpg&hash=965854cbaafb56fa0fbbd44850bde8c956b5f8ff)
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: RedRobin on June 23, 2012, 06:17:27 pm


I wouldn't advise having the baby in bed with you. I know some do it successfully but everything we have been told or read advises against it.


....Why?

You need to follow your instincts and not all the mambo-jambo text books about what's currently in fashion. Parenting doesn't need text books - It's the most natural thing in the world.

Obviously you stop well before he or she becomes a teenager!  :evilgrin:
Title: Re: Fatherhood and latest mods...
Post by: vRS Carl on June 23, 2012, 06:32:02 pm
The reason is because you could suffocate them either by yourself or with the duvet etc. I'm a light sleeper but I still wouldn't want to risk having a 5 wk old baby in the bed with me. Our son sleeps in the same room in his Moses basket. When he gets to about 6 months he will then go into the nursery.

We all do things differently and it's trial and error with kids.

Oh and wait till you get the sh*tty nappies. I didn't think it was possible for an adult to sh*t that much let alone a 5 wk old. Just had to Bath him as it was everywhere he'd done that much  :grin: