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Title: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: GTsport on November 28, 2012, 09:55:20 am
Well last night my fiancee borrowed my car (Think you all know where this is going!) 5 minutes later i get a call from her in a hysterical mess

She was in that much of I state I couldn't get out of her what had happened but at that point all I was bothered about was that she was ok.

So I put the kettle on, made her a brew and waited with apprehension.


So here's the out come:

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She's totally misjudged a low wall in the dark.


It actually upset me with how upset she was - I think she thought I was going to go absolutely ballistic at her!  And i'm quite surprised myself with how I reacted.

At the end of the day, we are all only human, we all make mistakes, she's not hurt and it is something that can be fixed.


I'm just devastated though - she couldn't of caused more damage in a car park if she tried.  Really bad timing as well (Although there is never a good time for this sort of thing!)


My major concern is the Rear Quarter, have any of you ever had rear quarter work? And any ideas of how you'd repair something like this?

I feel physically sick

 :sick: :sad1:


 
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: JackG on November 28, 2012, 10:05:41 am
Its a shame buddy but your a top man for not popping, she wouldnt have done it on purpose and she would have felt bad enough so kicking wouldnt have got it fixed  :congrats:

Its a shame but like you said, it can be fixed  :drinking:
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: E30Dom on November 28, 2012, 10:22:15 am
Firstly, is she still your fiancee now you've slept on it? (not like that!)

Secondly, it's really not that bad, they'll pull out the worse, skim it, spray it and new trim pieces it'll be good as new... time to get some quotes bud...

Wish my wife would drive mine, but she's too worried I would go ballistic, if she damaged my precious car...
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: rich83 on November 28, 2012, 10:31:31 am
This is the reason Laura doesn't drive mine....

 :sick:  :sick:
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: scopes on November 28, 2012, 10:34:00 am
At least no one was hurt  :wink:

Good luck with getting it sorted  :happy2:
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: JoeDarKa on November 28, 2012, 10:35:10 am
And the reason my mrs only drives her s reg, auto, battered on all corners starlet!

On a serious note, it doesnt look that bad! Take it to some places for some quotes
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: galaxie500 on November 28, 2012, 10:44:45 am
Feel for you - your pride and joy is tarnished and the other shining light in your life, a sobbing wreck. Look on the bright side. The car will be fixed and your fiancée will lavish you with gifts, compliments, meals and special favours(!) until she catches you doing something you shouldn't!
A good body ship with a stud welder will pull all the damage from the quarter panel with the minimum amount of body filler. The old method of drilling and pulling dents has largely been superseded by stud welding. Much better results and no place for rust to start. Ask the bodyshop their technique.
Good luck and enjoy the attention from your young lady.
PR
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: JoeDarKa on November 28, 2012, 11:04:43 am
Get her to pay!!  :grin:
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: monte on November 28, 2012, 11:06:57 am
I agree its not that bad at all really mate.

The key is finding a good reputable body shop.  :happy2:


Thing to do now is get it booked in for repair and book a weeks holiday in the canaries while its being fixed.

A full week away for the missis to show you how sorry she is  :happy2:

Come back and car is like new  :laugh:


....then start to think about the credit card statement  :scared:
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: GTI_UK on November 28, 2012, 11:12:25 am
… and here was me moaning about dropping a bulb in the headlight.

I do feel your pain but good on you for not reacting. I remember when my wife clipped a mirror on HER MK4 golf – she was shaking. Makes you realise there are more important things in life.


Anyway... as said it would have been worse. Looks like skin damage to me so at worst case a new/ user rear quarter can be used. You’ll think straighter in a few days so try to sit on your hands for a while and don’t rush in. If I were you I would get a few quotes and ask some probing questions – not only does it get you the answers you need it tells the bodyshops you’re not a push over/ you want the work done right.
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: liver on November 28, 2012, 11:18:09 am
gutted for you mate, but you make all the correct points and reacted in a very reasonible manor

i had this dent pulled out of my golf and repainted, circa £300 in West Yorkshire
(silly tesco bump which they didnt leave any details and tesco wouldnt give me access to the CCTV)

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and after
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Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: zerolag on November 28, 2012, 11:21:50 am
Horrible seeing things like this, sorry for you.  

I remember destroying the front of my old Focus, as some fairly big wildlife decided to run towards me on a dual carrigeway at night in the wet, managed to shave off a lot of speed, but still need a new radiator, bumper, lights... oh and lots of cleaning solution, eek.

As others have said, most of it doesn't look 'that' bad and would probably be ok with just one new part (rear quarter strip, cheap) and some decent bodywork restoration. As you say it's the rear 1/4 work will be the costly bit.

Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: gazon69 on November 28, 2012, 11:34:05 am
Get her to pay!!  :grin:
ye, special trouser kisses should do for the next whole year for a starters  :grin:
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: GTsport on November 28, 2012, 11:48:04 am
Thanks for all the comments of support and understanding!  :happy2:

I think i was just panicking a bit that it was a lot bigger job to repair than it actually is! Sent me into  a bit of a meltdown but I'm reassured by what your all saying.

Taking it to the bodyshop tomorrow and we'll see whats what.

I know where your coming from not letting your partners use your car, saves a lot of hassle!!!  I'll take it on the chin and learn from it  :signLOL:


Thanks again  :happy2:

Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: Lone_Par on November 28, 2012, 12:26:32 pm
Nightmare. Hope it's not too hard on your other halves purse.

Just milk the undoubted guilt that she will be feeling!!
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: GTsport on November 28, 2012, 12:44:16 pm
Nightmare. Hope it's not too hard on your other halves purse.

Just milk the undoubted guilt that she will be feeling!!

Problem is, we have a joint account, so i'll be sort of footing the bill anyway! (as i contribute more to it!)  Double school boy error 1) Joint account 2) letting her use my car

I need to sort myself out!!!  :signLOL:
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: Hedge on November 28, 2012, 12:49:23 pm
Luckily or rather sadly for you your car is a 3 door.

Had it been a 5 door and she had smashed your back doors in you could have returned the compliment.  :evilgrin:
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: rich83 on November 28, 2012, 12:59:36 pm
Luckily or rather sadly for you your car is a 3 door.

Had it been a 5 door and she had smashed your back doors in you could have returned the compliment.  :evilgrin:

I saw that you had commented... and I expected "One smashed in back door deserves another"...  so I wasn't too dissapointed  :signLOL:
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: Hedge on November 28, 2012, 01:18:00 pm
Not here to disappoint Rich.  :wink:
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: GTsport on November 28, 2012, 01:23:45 pm
Luckily or rather sadly for you your car is a 3 door.

Had it been a 5 door and she had smashed your back doors in you could have returned the compliment.  :evilgrin:

I saw that you had commented... and I expected "One smashed in back door deserves another"...  so I wasn't too dissapointed  :signLOL:

 :signLOL:

I'll mention it to her and see what she thinks!  :grin:

Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: PND on November 28, 2012, 01:33:05 pm
It normally takes something like this to make you realise that at the end of the day, your car is only a big lump of metal and plastic.  In the grand scheme of things, it's not really worth worrying about.  No-one was hurt - that's the main thing.

Hope you get it sorted out without any headaches and for not too many £s!
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: GTsport on November 28, 2012, 02:16:59 pm
Yeah you're spot on.

I know im OCD about my car and I really wish I wasn't bothered about cars and them being perfect. I just cant help it! At the time it felt like the biggest disaster in the world. But its only metal.

But after reading peoples comments and speaking to the bodyshop I'm quite happy now that it'll get repaired to a standard that you would never even tell.

Deep breaths and keep reminding myself, it's only a car, no one was hurt or killed   :signLOL:


Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: RedRobin on November 28, 2012, 03:24:38 pm
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Major respect to you for your understanding and sympathy for her feelings  :notworthy: :congrats: :congrats: :congrats: :congrats:

Your relationship will be stronger after this event. From her upset and your sympathy for her, it's crystal clear you love each other.

Once it's repaired you'll forget about it and go back to enjoying your car.  :happy2:
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: chrisr763 on November 28, 2012, 03:27:59 pm
Yeah you're spot on.

I know im OCD about my car and I really wish I wasn't bothered about cars and them being perfect. I just cant help it! At the time it felt like the biggest disaster in the world. But its only metal.

But after reading peoples comments and speaking to the bodyshop I'm quite happy now that it'll get repaired to a standard that you would never even tell.

Deep breaths and keep reminding myself, it's only a car, no one was hurt or killed   :signLOL:




Hope the bill isnt too large and your pleased with the results. Let us see when it gets done  :happy2:
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: blackmagic on November 28, 2012, 03:36:45 pm
Been there got the t-shirt as well lol! My Missus borrowed mine to go do the shopping at tesco and somehow managed to drive into the stand thing that holds the trolleys. :driver:
Fortunately wasn't to bad. She was the same very apologetic and thought I'd go ballistic. I didn't but she had to make it up to me!
Funny thing was I had to drive her back to tesco as she hadn't done the shopping.
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: RedRobin on November 28, 2012, 03:45:12 pm
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^ I've posted this before and doubtless it'll get posted again but it's relevant.
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: GTsport on November 28, 2012, 07:47:18 pm
Thanks for the comments guys - that's why I love this forum  :happy2:

RR - both your posts made me smile and laugh  :happy2:  :grin:
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: Tortaruga on November 28, 2012, 09:06:35 pm
Nasty! That'll cost well over a grand to sort.

I know from experience...but I did it myself like a tit so no boudoir 'favours' for me. 

Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: scottm72 on November 28, 2012, 09:08:23 pm
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^ I've posted this before and doubtless it'll get posted again but it's relevant.
hey if my wife gave me that kind of response after pranging my car to hell with the car man -  :jumping: :jumping:
at least for 10 minutes anyway  :jumping: :jumping:
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: j dog on December 01, 2012, 08:14:36 pm
You'll just have to kill her. Problem solved.
Title: Re: Absolutely Gutted!!!! Advice needed please!!!
Post by: scottm72 on December 01, 2012, 11:35:01 pm
You'll just have to kill her. Problem solved.
:love:
just a stupid car at the end of the day