Good morning!
So I just spoke to Robert at H+G Tuning in Paderborn. And its been for an all night session at the electronic specialist.
Everything is now perfect apart from one minor fault and its the ECU :/ but my car is going in there properly on Monday. He said he should be able to repair the ECU so I am hoping next week I get the all okay and collect my car.
Hope this helps with anyone else's problem.