Ok, in the fuse box, look at the positions in my guide, but ultimately you're looking for a slot that has feed. You can tell the difference between one with a feed and a blank one as the one with a feed had a metal connector to accept one leg of the fuse.
The other leg it made by inserting the relevant wire from the heated seat loom which will then make a complete 'socket' for the fuse.
Use a multimeter to test for constant / ignition live, find the ones you need insert the wire from the loom.
Nearly there!! :)